My friend Margaret Jacobsen stopped by over the weekend and snapped some photos of us at home. I'm forever grateful to her for these. I wanted to share a few on the blog here. You can also visit Margaret's website to see more.
Flora was born over a week ago, but I have been pretty busy with three kids. Any time I find to write this post usually turns into a baby cuddling session instead. I think I have my priorities straight.
Her birth ended up being a very surprising induction due to the awesome liver condition called cholestasis. On Saturday 2/28 Jeremy and I planned to go see a movie while my parents came up to watch Pearl and Axel. I had some blood work done the previous Thursday because I mentioned to my doctor that I had started itching all over my body. It wasn't unbearable, but it was annoying. She said it was probably no big deal, but had me go to the lab just to be safe. The majority of my results came back that day and were normal. There was just one last test that needed to be done at an outside lab. My doctor concluded prior to that result coming back that I was most likely fine and there was no reason to worry.
My doctor called on Saturday morning to say that my results had come back and they were not what she expected. I definitely had cholestasis and she recommended that I be induced that afternoon. She explained the longer you go into your pregnancy, the worse the condition gets, and it is associated with higher levels of still birth. That was enough for me to agree immediately to come in.
We arranged for my mother-in-law to come watch the kids. Then we grabbed lunch at Burgerville and headed to the hospital.
The induction process took forever. Jeremy and I sat in the hospital room all day. We both finished a book. We also watched What About Bob. I had regular contractions for a number of hours, but they were not very painful. After spending the majority of the day there, I was dilated to 3 cm.
Sometime after midnight, the midwife decided to break my water hoping that would get things moving. She was right. The contractions were immediately terrible after that point. I got an epidural when dilated to 8 cm. I told the anesthesiologist that I wanted to be able to feel my legs, but didn't want to be as uncomfortable as the state I was currently in. He gave me a half dose of what they usually would administer in an epidural. I had no idea that was even something they could do, but it was great.
I started to feel pressure to push about ten minutes after my epidural took effect. The nurse didn't really seem to believe me, but eventually called the midwife back to check and it was time to push. Flora was out in three contractions.
The midwife set Flora on my chest. She looked so tiny and quickly fell asleep. She started snoring right there on my chest. It was the cutest.
Full Disclosure - I received two free tickets for this event as a media guest, but was not required to write about the show. All opinions are my own.
Last night Pearl and I attended Rodgers + Hammerstein's Cinderella at the Keller Auditorium. I knew the basic Cinderella story going into it and felt it would be decently suited for Pearl (at 3.5 years old) to enjoy. She loves princesses, but I was a little nervous the stepmother character would be too mean and scare her. Thankfully, the stepmother was more comically rude than evil. The stepsisters were also great. One was rude, but hilarious and the other sister was very sweet. Pearl wasn't afraid at any point during the show.
Rodgers and Hammerstein's Cinderella is a bit different than the story you might remember from your childhood. There is a lot more comedy infused into the show which I appreciated. They added in positive messages around kindness and caring for the poor. It had more substance than the Disney version I grew up with. Pearl especially loved Cinderella's magically quick costume changes and was in awe when the fairy godmother started to fly.
The show started at 7:30 and I wasn't sure how that was going to work out for us. Pearl is usually in bed by 8:30 so I knew she would be up substantially later than normal. Sometimes that results in a really cranky kid, but she was so entertained that it didn't seem to matter. She almost fell asleep near the end, but really wanted to see the wedding and managed to stay awake.
Pearl did extremely well during the show. It kept her entertained and in the moments when she would lose focus, she mostly started looking around for other kids in their princess dresses. She never left her seat except to sit on my lap occasionally. I was honestly a little afraid she would try to get up and wander around, but that never happened.
The Keller Auditorium caters to bringing small children pretty well. They have booster seats that are available for rent for just $1. I would highly recommend getting a booster seat if you take your toddler to a show. I noticed kids as old as 7 or 8 using the booster seats as well.
The one thing I wasn't prepared for was how much cash I would need to have. I didn't even consider the need to bring extra cash, but it would have come in very handy. We parked in a nearby garage so the two of us didn't have to walk far which was $6 cash only. I knew we would need to buy water which was also a cash only purchase. Then we paid $1 to use a booster seat. After those purchases, the $10 I had in my purse was gone. I would definitely take more cash next time. I just assumed you could use a card for all purchases at the event, but that was not the case.
Another thing worth mentioning is that you are not allowed to take any photos at all once you are in the auditorium at Keller. If you want pictures to remember the evening with your child, take them before you get to your seats. They are sticklers about it and everyone who tried to take a photo near us was caught. I was thankful we took a few photos at home to remember our evening before we left. I should have gotten one of Pearl in front of the theater, but there were so many people by the time we arrived.
It was a special evening for Pearl and I as we don't usually get one-on-one time like that. Pearl really thought it was magical and even the people around us kept commenting on how happy she looked to be there. I can't wait for an opportunity to take her to another show in the future.
TICKET AND PERFORMANCE INFORMATION
February 17 - 22, 2015|Keller Auditorium, SW 3rd & Clay
My amazing husband finished work on our bathroom this weekend. Sometimes I feel like I won the lottery landing such a handy guy for a husband. He remodeled our master bathroom when we first moved into the house, but this one is larger and a lot more work so we had to save up the funds for a few years. This is our guest bathroom and the one our kids will use as they get older. It was a source of embarrassment for me whenever people came over to our house for the first time. Some features of the original room included old stained linoleum, chipped paint, and a water damaged door. Here are some before photos:
The vanity cabinets were custom built at a local place because the size of the large one is not standard. Jeremy stained them himself. The porcelain tile, backsplash, and counter tops all came from Home Depot.
We went with mostly grayscale items. Our shower curtain features a photo of Mt. Hood which is a mountain that can be easily seen from most parts of Portland. We decided that a pop of color would be a nice accent to include in the hand towels and bathroom rug. We went with yellow and found most of those accents at Target.
I made the Daniel Tiger print to put above the toilet and I also created the line artwork to mimic the shape of Mt. Hood from the shower curtain. We also have a large framed photo of Multnomah Falls that was given to us as a wedding gift by a family friend.
I love that it's a room that we can easily change by updating our accents over time and I'm excited for all of our guests to use the restroom now.
We are working on a full remodel for our bathroom. It should be done in the next couple of weeks so I have started thinking about decor for the space. We are going with a grey scale color theme that is a bit sophisticated, but this will also be the bathroom that our kids will grow up using. I wanted to insert a little fun into the room through artwork. Since Daniel Tiger helped us so much while potty training Pearl, it seemed natural to use a quote from that magic potty training song.
People seemed to love the print when I posted a photo on Instagram over the weekend so I figured I would offer it on the blog as a free printable. Click here to access a pdf of the print. Please let me know if you use the print, I would love to see photos of it up at your home!
*A few tips for using online printables - I have archival paper, but basic card stock will probably work for you. There is a lot of black ink in this print so recycled printer paper is not ideal as it will get wavy. To avoid any sort of streaking in the text, set your printer to a higher quality print as it is most likely on a standard printing setting. The artwork will fit in an 8x10 frame. You can easily print it on 8.5x11 and cut it down if needed.**If you need potty training assistance, the episode number is 111 and I highly recommend it!
Our living room had a major eyesore for a number of years. We had a whole wall of built-in bookshelves that were just not pretty. The shelves were useful since we have a ton of books, but there was nothing that could be done to that set-up to make it look nice. The bottom 1/3 of our shelves were unusable because toddlers love pulling books off of shelves. The ledge of the bookshelf extended out so much that it became a dumping ground for mail, keys, and any item that I didn't want the kids to reach. Our living room always looked cluttered, messy, and not very well thought out because of those shelves. It didn't matter how clean the room was.
Thankfully, due to a recent freelance job, we had the funds to update them. Jeremy had a vision and explained it to a carpenter friend of ours who executed the bookshelves perfectly. We can fit all of our books on there in a more organized and decorative manner. We also now have tons of storage at the bottom of the wall that the kids will not be able to access. I'm incredibly excited about our shelves. Jeremy clearly is too because he has been on a book buying frenzy recently.
This Christmas season was really fun for our family. Pearl was old enough to understand a lot more and both kids thoroughly enjoyed themselves. Santa isn't a thing around here, but we also haven't made it a point to not do Santa which I think confused Pearl a little. Santa is basically everywhere and she picks up on things pretty quickly. We will need to have the talk with her next year.
We got to spend lots of time with extended family on both sides and Pearl was especially excited to see her Washington cousins. She even had a sleepover with her cousin Maleah one night.
Presents are not a huge thing around here, but the kids did receive books, a toy Dyson replica vacuum (which Axel is obsessed with), and a couple Frozen dolls. They were spoiled by extended family as usual and I don't think we will need to buy them any pajamas for a couple years.
My proudest moment of the season was when Pearl chose to give away a bunch of toys to our friends who just started their journey with foster care. She was so excited that the kids would get to enjoy them. After choosing to give away all of the toys I had set out as options, she went into the playroom to find more.
As usual, I made a silly gift tag for family presents. I didn't have much time this year so Jeremy suggested I just do a Die Hard poster replacing Bruce Willis with Axel's face instead of Photoshopping the whole family. Axel loved the tags and kept tearing them off of gifts. By Christmas, I had to tape each one back on at least once.
We rang in the new year with a group of friends who also have kids. We were in bed by ten. It was perfect. I'm excited and a little nervous to experience all that 2015 will bring which of course includes baby number three in March.